Heal. Grow. Live… THEN Love.

Love isn’t waiting for you.
YOU are.

Love is a powerful, beautiful, and transformational force that brings out the best in those who choose to receive it. Love is something I wish for each of you who desire it.

But you need to know that healthy love doesn’t want to be your main focus. Yes, it wants to be a source of strength, support, intimacy, and encouragement. It also wants to come in and compliment your life, your goals, and your purpose. But it can’t do that until you’ve made the decision to take time to discover those things yourself.

Love… needs you to find YOU first.

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Emerge”

Please Note: Due to extensive travel schedule, “Emerge” is being converted to a self-paced, online course. Link coming soon!

Because you weren’t meant to earn love or sacrifice yourself to succeed.

Emerge is my exclusive Coaching Program where I combine my “Heal. Grow. Live… THEN Love” philosophy with The Reset Code(TM) - my signature identity reinvention journey and blueprint - to serve those ready to devote time to learn, relearn, or discover new things about themselves… beyond titles, relationship status, or other expectations placed on you by others. Through Emerge, you will do just that - Enter the program where privacy and exclusivity set the tone and create a “cocooon” in which you will learn with me without “going live,” enjoy the process without posts, and “emerge” not as a new person, but a more authentic, whole and grounded You.

These spaces have been created for those who are:

  • Done with the cycle of emotionally expensive relationships just to avoid being alone.

  • Tired of feeling they have to earn worthiness of love or success.

  • Ready to create a life that doesn’t require healing, escape, distractions, or isolation.

what's "the reset code?"

Books & Media

Dear Universe… WTF?!

Yes, it IS possible to get through the worst of a bad breakup in less than a month  – and here are the steps.

$11.49

You’re Not in Love Sis… He’s Just a F*ckboy

A profile of the infamous F*ckboy, why he’s in your head, your bed, and your heart… or so you think.

$TBD

Ew, Sis… You Smell Like Your Ex!

The long-awaited book inspired by an old YouTube Video where I explained the Triple R Syndrome many have after a series of bad dating experiences, and/or relationships.

$TBD

“ …I have ascended to unparalleled heights as a Territory Sales Manager and presently as the Sales Manager of my own thriving Metal Building Supplies Store. Coach Jai's mentorship has been the catalyst for unlocking my full potential…”

—Dakota K.

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